Divorce problem

Marriage is a beautiful social institution and the most loyal relationship between two families. But what also comes along with it is, the social stigma of Divorce. Happy couples are always finding ways and means to be content and peaceful but it’s not necessary things work out as per planned. Sometimes, they are totally opposite. Marriage and divorce are both common experiences. Plenty of challenges are faced and dealt with on a day to day basis, arguments come handy and understanding calls for th most. The under heap of emotions in a broken marriage needs personal attention of not only the couple but other significant people as well. Aren’t hundreds of people involved during marriage, then it takes a big family umbrella to share the burden of the two. It is helpful to understand the problems well and the reasons for the same.

A very timely topic to discuss, separations are increasingexponentially. We all have been hearing from our ancestors, marriages are made in heaven but deciding to get divorced takes on earth. This is also what astrology says. A prosperous married life, will undeniably give growth and happiness but not everyone is so lucky. There can be reasons aplenty for divorce or separation but the main reasons for martial disharmony are lack of love and romance.

Encouraging and supporting healthy marriages is the noblest deed but witnessing separations around could turn out worse, even worsen when the marriage has children. And when children are involved, many of the resulting single-parent households are poor. For example, less than 20 percent of married couples with children are poor as compared with about 35 to 45 percent of single-mother families. The failure of parents to keep up with marriage and persistently high rates of divorce are also behind the high percentage of children who grow up in a single-parent family. There wouldn’t be time then, when metal health is challenged.

Extra-marital affairs are most responsible for the breakdown of most marriages that end in separations.

Guruji Pramod Shahstri will give you advice on how you should not go through a divorce. Couples get divorce for any reasons nowadays. You know whatis not going well for you and your spouse. Your partner did seem stern about things, aloof and indignant that last time you spoke to each other. Like always expectations are put on table. Instead, one day, you come home to find their chores are missing from their places and a piece of paper on the table- a divorce notice. This takes everything for a toss. Nobody ever dreams of such a scenario unless one is put into.

The reasons why people cheat on their partners aren’t as simple and dry as our anger may lead us to believe it. “It starts as an emotional affair which later becomes a physical affair”.

How many of you think money is the separation factor? It indeed is. Everything from different spending habits and set up financial goals to one spouse making significantly more money than the other, causing a power struggle can definitely strain a marriage to the brim. “Money really touches everything and everyone” says Guruji and suggests way not to get into the money trap..

Guruji says “What keeps two people together in any relationship is nothing but communication.” It indeed is the foundation of a strong marriage. On the road to practicing heedful communication, to change age-old marriage blunders, can be hard and less adaptive but it’s well worth the effort to improve and save your relationship. Nevertheless, couples who seem to keep having the same argument over time and again are less likely to appreciate each other in the good times to come. Many find it hard to see the other person’s point of view, which leads to a lot of arguments without ever coming to a determination, which can ultimately be a cause of divorce. Unrealistic expectations and lack of intimacy is proven making a relationship less successful.

Before going through a divorce, we urge you to call up Guruji on +91-9988051848. He will help you find life-long happiness.